毕业四年。一直的心愿就是回一趟桂林。

这次五一终于有机会了。一趟桂林行圆了我毕业四年的一个梦。虽然去了3天，打了2天点滴。但是很开心。

所有每一张照片，每一个足迹。都是我拥有的曾经美好的回忆。

一切已经回不去了。我想这些也不重要了。这次去了桂林，以后可能不会再有什么机会再回去了。但是这些记忆，永远会存在我的记忆里。我会在想念他们的时候，拿出来回味。这样，真的就够了。

本来打算去桂林。 阴差阳错去了厦门。 这个就是与这个城市的缘分。

三个女人的3天半的行程。 随意是唯一的主线。 出去走走也好。否则都不清楚自己的存在。

3天半的行程，让我想明白了太多东西。

2008年1月1日，我醒了，翻身坐起来。 欧若拉同学对我说：2008年，你要学会选择，懂得放弃。 思绪立刻游离了。。。

2007跨到2008。

我选择到暖和的厦门。

希望我的2008能变得更好！

      Last month we asked Glamour readers to share their worst breakup stories on glamour.com. We promised we would send the winner a basket of beauty treats, and after reading all of your stories, we can tell you one thing for sure—there isn’t enough bubble bath in the world to amend the grief guys put you through! Read, relate and remember: You were too good for the bastard, anyhow.

THE WINNER

My boyfriend of three years proposed with the same ring he’d given his ex-fiancée, without resizing it. I should have said no! Eventually I saw the writing on the wall, but before I could dump him, he dumped me in a note he left at my office. He didn’t even waste a stamp. —K.E.

THE RUNNER-UP

Oh, where to begin in my sad past of crappy boyfriends? I’ll sum up the first one simply with his breakup line: “I don’t have time for a relationship right now. I’ll call you back after deer season.” —Jennifer

Another reason to never date a guy that smokes!

My ex and I were engaged, we lived together, and my children were very close to him. One late night after a party, he left the apartment to get a pack of cigarettes. It wasn’t an uncommon thing for him to do, but when he wasn’t back by 4:00 A.M., I got worried and called. His phone was off. The next day he called to tell me it was over. He left everything he owned in our house and never came back again. —Michelle

He made me a practical joke!

My ex-boyfriend and I had been dating for six months. One day, out of nowhere, he told me he had a girlfriend. When I started to cry, he told me I was overreacting. I was furious! Then he told me he was just kidding and he really loved me. I believed him. The next week I went to visit him at his house. When I rang the doorbell he opened the door and gave me a kiss. There was a girl sitting on the couch that I’d never seen before. He walked over to her, gave her a kiss, and said “Hi, Julie. Meet my girlfriend.” They both started laughing. I found out later from him that he wanted just to do that for fun to twist my heart and play with it. I was really upset, but don’t worry, I found out a way to get him back. —Julie

He married someone else—before he broke up with me!

I met Adam online. When we finally met in person a few months later, I fell in love with him. We dated for nine months. He was even my first. I thought things were going quite well, when he announced, out of the blue, that he was moving back to his hometown. I was sad, but I didn’t think we needed to break up because the town was only two hours away. When I said so, he confessed that he was moving home to get back with his ex. Then I found their wedding announcement online. The wedding date had already passed. He’d been married a month before he broke up with me! —Victoria

He cleaned me out!

When my boyfriend lost his job, I let him move in with me while he got his life back together. Instead of finding work, he got hooked on drugs. I came home one day to find him gone. He’d left all of his stuff but had taken my $20,000 engagement ring (from a former relationship) with him. I never heard from him again. —Kim

He did it via text message!

My boyfriend and I were dating for eight years. He was my best friend. We finally decided to move in together and made a date to go and look for our new apartment. The day before he decided he wasn’t happy anymore and broke up with me—via text message. —B

He pretended to be born again!

Years ago, I dated a man who worked in another department. Since I was newly separated at the time, I believed him when he claimed to be newly separated from his wife. After a hot and heavy summer that included several very public dates at expensive restaurants, he suddenly remembered he was not only married but that he’d recently been born again and that adultery was against his religion. —Sunny

He broke up with me on New Year’s Eve—at midnight!

This is the worst breakup story of all time. My boyfriend and I went skiing for the weekend of New Year’s. We skied, went out to dinner and danced. It was a dream vacation. Then, just after midnight on New Year’s Eve, while we were sitting in the hot tub, he told me he wanted to start his new year by seeing other people. To make matters worse, we got a flat tire on the six-hour ride home together and had to pull over to wait for AAA. Fun! —Olivia

source: http://www.glamour.com/**men/articles/2007/12/dumpedwinners

comments:　看看别人的不幸福． 突然觉得原来自己身边的以外，这类极品事件太多了。